The night air in our little Liverpool flat was thick with the hush of bedtime, the only sounds the...
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My mother always said that she hadn’t done it hard enough if I wasn’t still sore the next day
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0(gap: 2s) Looking back upon my formative years in England during the 1960s, I am reminded of a time...
She took out a small bar of soap and had me hold it between my teeth
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0My mother was a woman of quiet strength and unwavering standards. She dressed simply and practically—always in plain blouses...
Childhood, for me, was a patchwork of vivid moments—some stitched with laughter, others with the sharp thread of discipline....
To the outside world, my stepmother was the picture of kindness—clever, funny, always ready with a warm smile or...
I would feel a cold chill run through me just seeing the impliments of discipline resting on the shelf or study table
lfjoz, , Uncategorized, 0(gap: 2s) The south London of my childhood was a world of contrasts—grey tower blocks rising above narrow streets,...
The first spanking I remember getting myself as a girl was from my Mother was when I had a...
When Mother punished us like this, we could be in that corner for up to an hour
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0This is one of the many memories I have of growing up in a normal Catholic family in Ireland...
Whatever the rights and wrongs of it from a modern perspective, we respected our elders, minded our manners and behaved ourselves
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0My childhood unfolded in the heart of Texas during the 1960s, a time when the world felt both vast...
Rules were there to protect us, and that true strength was in doing what was right, not what others dared us to do
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0In the early 1960s, life on our Scottish council estate was simple, and as children, we knew our place....
The last time I had my mouth soaped and also the last time I got the strap from either parent
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0I grew up the oldest of four, with a sister two years younger and brothers five and eight years...
That summer, our family—Mother, Father, myself, my younger sister, and my two younger brothers—journeyed to Scotland to visit my...
I managed to convince my mother that I was too old for summer camp that year. With her new...
Those coats were beautiful, but I never wanted another one with a velvet collar
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0On a bright Easter morning, Mother presented us with splendid new coats. They were a matching pair, though my...
(gap: 2s) My childhood unfolded in Buffalo, New York, a city of snowdrifts and steel, where the wind off...
A doubly good hidingThe punishments did their job – I never went out of school againA doubly good hiding
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0gap: 2s) Growing up in the mid 1970s in a Scottish council estate, discipline was woven into the fabric...
Mother was a little less severe with me that afternoon than she usually was
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0The air was thick with the scent of cut grass and the distant tang of the sea, and the...
I was born in the late 1970s, a time when the world seemed painted in muted hues and the...
In the days of my childhood, I was utterly enchanted by the radio dramas that filled the air each...
Discipline was Mothers way of preparing us for a world that could be just as unforgiving
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0I wanted to tell you a little bit about my Mother’s use of the cane, but to understand it,...
In the heart of our Scottish neighbourhood, there resided a boy named Freddie. It was well understood among the...
When I was in my second year at senior school, the winter winds grew sharp and cold, and I...
The sting bloomed instantly, a hot, tingling burn that made my eyes water
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0(gap: 1s) This is the story of the most mortifying punishment I ever received—a memory etched in my mind,...
It was the early 1970s, a time when most parents were anything but liberal, and discipline was expected—sometimes demanded—by...
(gap: 2s) Growing up in the 1960s, discipline was woven into the very fabric of daily life—at home, at...
My brother Jeff and I are only 13 months apart and we were raised almost like twins. We had...
Spankings at my house were not rare and all of us – my younger sis and two younger brothers...
From inside, she pulled out a wooden hairbrush I’d never seen before
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0(gap: 2s) As I trudged through the rest of my school day, the hard wooden chairs beneath me felt...
(gap: 1s) The earliest memory I can summon is but a fleeting wisp, as delicate as the scent of...
In our garden, we were strictly forbidden to play baseball, for the windows of the house were made of...
My parents reached adulthood in the 1960s and both were what one might call admirers of President Kennedy’s ideals....
My mother took me to visit the daughter of one of her friends. We were the same age. Sarah...
When I was a child, I developed a deep fascination for horses, as many young girls do. I would...
Growing up in France during the 1970s, I was raised by my devoted mother, a woman of unwavering strength...
(gap: 2s) In the days of my youth, when corporal punishment at home was a common and accepted practice,...
During my formative years, my mother held a steadfast belief in the value of corporal punishment as a means...
I was raised in Canada within the embrace of a devout Irish Catholic household, blessed with two sisters—one my...
My sister Clare and I, as young girls, were often engaged in disagreements, much to the distress of our...
(short pause) My siblings and I grew up in a world of grey tenements and sharp North Sea winds,...
In the heart of a bustling Scottish estate, during the days when the world seemed painted in faded colours...
(gap: 2s) My brother and I, separated by two years yet bound by the invisible thread of childhood rivalry,...
I was playing at the park with some friends. Our mothers were seated on benches a few hundred yards...
(gap: 2s) “I said no!” my mother’s voice rang out, sharp and unwavering, as she yanked my small, curious...
(gap: 2s) I had always believed that, upon entering our private school, the days of physical discipline would be...
(gap: 2s) In every well-ordered home, the afternoon tea is a cherished ritual, a moment of grace and hospitality....
True character is shaped not in moments of ease, but in the gentle correction of our faults
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0(gap: 2s) In the gentle hush of a well-ordered home, my mother was engaged in a telephone conversation with...
(gap: 2s) My childhood unfolded in the heart of Alabama, in a bustling home that echoed with laughter, the...
(gap: 2s) I recall with utmost clarity the occasion when my elder brother and I received a most salutary...
(gap: 2s) My childhood unfolded in the late 1950s and early 1960s, a time when young ladies were expected...
As I look back upon my formative years in the north-east of England during the 1950s, I am reminded...
Even growing up in the 80s, spanking was far more common than you might think. Most of the youngsters...
(gap: 1s) Several summers ago, when the world seemed brighter and the days stretched endlessly, my siblings and I...
Before I tell you more about my mother, I must explain how we came to live in the north...
In the 1960s, teachers were the unyielding pillars of morality and order. Their presence alone commanded respect, and their...
In the Scotland of the 1960s, the world in which I grew up was shaped by the ceaseless clang...
Through my tears, I heard her voice, tight and trembling with anger and disappointment
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0I remember that Sunday morning so clearly, as if the air itself was tinged with anticipation. I was all...
I grew up in Ohio in the 1970s. my best friend and I had grown curious about being cool...
(gap: 2s) The memory of that day is etched in my mind, as vivid as the faded wallpaper in...
My mother, though we lived on a council estate, had grown up in a comfortable middle-class home, a world...
(gap: 1s) Growing up on the estate in the north of England, our world was a patchwork of red-brick...
(gap: 2s) I grew up in the late 1960s, on a street where discipline wasn’t just a rule—it was...
Sometimes we have to become grown-ups to play out our heart’s desires
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0(gap: 2s) My mother was never one for pets. She saw them as messy, unpredictable, and a threat to...
(gap: 2s) Growing up in the early 1970s, the world felt both vibrant and strict. Our days were filled...
Growing up in the early 1970s, spanking wasn’t as common as it had been in my parents’ day, but...
My mother, Eleanor, was a woman of formidable presence, her ambitions for me shining brighter than the polished silver...
As a child of the 1970s, I was shaped by the rhythms and rules of a world that felt...
Each smack seemed to echo louder than the last, the sound bouncing off the tiled walls
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0(gap: 2s) My mother was a proper lady of British descent, and in our 1950s suburb, she was the...
This is a memory and lesson that lasted. I had stolen some cookies that morning out of a jar...
(gap: 2s) This is a story from my earliest childhood, set in the gentle days of the 1930s. I...
As a child, I was often packed off to my maternal grandparent’s home in the country. Their house was...
(gap: 2s) In the days when I was a little girl, our home was a place of order and...
We lay the foundation for lives of kindness, respect, and enduring strength
lfjoz, , Uncategorized, 0(gap: 2s) In the gentle glow of a 1950s afternoon, as sunlight filtered through lace curtains and laughter of...
(gap: 2s) When I reflect upon my childhood, I recall many occasions when discipline was administered with a firm...
(gap: 1s) The house I grew up in was a world of gentle order and quiet routines, where the...
Growing up in southern Germany during the 60s, I was part of a middle-class family where men worked long...
(gap: 1s) Growing up in a military family in the 1960s meant that discipline and order were woven into...
My memories of smacked bottoms reach back to the late 1960s, a time when the world seemed painted in...
Even now, all these years later, I can feel the sting, the shame, and the strange, aching love that lived in those moments of discipline.
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0My mother was the very picture of discipline—her hair always pulled back in a severe bun, her shirtwaist dresses...
I would always try to pick the thinnest, most flexible switch, hoping it would hurt less
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0In the 1950s, my sister and I grew up in a world that felt both safe and unyielding—a world...
A lesson in boundaries, forgiveness, and the bittersweet loss of innocence
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, 0This happened back in the mid-60s. The world then seemed both vast and contained, my universe stretching only as...














































































