While these categories are the generally accepted classifications both within the gender community and among helping professionals, during my work with gender folk I have come to the belief that there is only one cause, one conflict, one condition — but there are many reactions and adjustments to it. I have gradually come to the conclusion that one’s coming to terms with the conflict between one’s knowledge of their true gender and one’s need to be “normal” fosters the same conflict in all gender folk. Because a child’s greatest desire is to be normal (like everybody else), the great majority of transgendered individuals create an artificial self which meets this goal. They are often so successful at this that they not only fool everyone else but themselves as well — at least part of the time, in some way.
Transgendered The Five Layer Model of Gender41
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Anxiety and Cross Dressing2
Nina Blyton, , Crossdressing, 0
Reply Most guys who are considerate and understanding would not mind at all, I’ve been to clubs and taken...
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Perfumes for Crossdressers 2
Nina Blyton, , Crossdressing, 0
Perfume is always a very personal thing, something that smells great on one person , may reek on someone...
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Crossdressing & Comming Out1
Nina Blyton, , Crossdressing, 0
Question Mine is a question open to all and contemplated by many of the girls who haven’t done so...
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Flying en femme4
Nina Blyton, , Crossdressing, 0
I had no issues at all regarding my gender not matching my passport. The airline staff did not blink...
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Crossdressing & Foundation Setting Powder3
Nina Blyton, , Crossdressing, 0
Reply I used Tesco Baby Powder. So first wash and then moisturize with Nivea 3 in 1 cleanser, toner,...
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A Crossdresser named Madelaine4
Nina Blyton, , Crossdressing, 0
The next time I visited her She always prepared another part of female clothes for me. She was...
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A Crossdressers first Outing3
Nina Blyton, , Crossdressing, 0
Suddenly the doors opened. Thankfully the lift was empty. As I pressed the “G” for the ground button...
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Crossdressing Stories From Boy to Girl71
Nina Blyton, , Crossdressing, 0
When I told mum she said that we would go into town shopping again – after all girls loved...