I was playing at the park with some friends. Our mothers were seated on benches a few hundred yards...
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I certainly learned my lesson that day
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) “I said no!” my mother’s voice rang out, sharp and unwavering, as she yanked my small, curious...
The importance of self-control and dignity
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) I had always believed that, upon entering our private school, the days of physical discipline would be...
Mother addressed us with solemnity
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In every well-ordered home, the afternoon tea is a cherished ritual, a moment of grace and hospitality....
True character is shaped not in moments of ease, but in the gentle correction of our faults
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In the gentle hush of a well-ordered home, my mother was engaged in a telephone conversation with...
Lessons that would not soon be forgotten
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) My childhood unfolded in the heart of Alabama, in a bustling home that echoed with laughter, the...
Values of respect, obedience, and personal responsibility
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) I recall with utmost clarity the occasion when my elder brother and I received a most salutary...
Petticoat Pettiness
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) My childhood unfolded in the late 1950s and early 1960s, a time when young ladies were expected...
Reflections on Discipline and Obedience
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0As I look back upon my formative years in the north-east of England during the 1950s, I am reminded...
Deliberate, as if Mother wanted me to remember
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Even growing up in the 80s, spanking was far more common than you might think. Most of the youngsters...
Mother’s discipline was swift and methodical
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) Several summers ago, when the world seemed brighter and the days stretched endlessly, my siblings and I...
Was she right to be so strict?
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Before I tell you more about my mother, I must explain how we came to live in the north...
Each strike was a jolt, a bolt of lightning that left me gasping
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0In the 1960s, teachers were the unyielding pillars of morality and order. Their presence alone commanded respect, and their...
I never skipped school after that, I’ll tell you
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0In the Scotland of the 1960s, the world in which I grew up was shaped by the ceaseless clang...
Through my tears, I heard her voice, tight and trembling with anger and disappointment
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I remember that Sunday morning so clearly, as if the air itself was tinged with anticipation. I was all...
I never touched another cigarette.
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I grew up in Ohio in the 1970s. my best friend and I had grown curious about being cool...
Counting the cost
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) The memory of that day is etched in my mind, as vivid as the faded wallpaper in...
If you won’t apologise, you’ll get it all the harder
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My mother, though we lived on a council estate, had grown up in a comfortable middle-class home, a world...
I don’t know what your mam will say about this
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) Growing up on the estate in the north of England, our world was a patchwork of red-brick...
Mother’s silence was terrifying
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) I grew up in the late 1960s, on a street where discipline wasn’t just a rule—it was...
Sometimes we have to become grown-ups to play out our heart’s desires
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) My mother was never one for pets. She saw them as messy, unpredictable, and a threat to...
Sometimes, discipline had to be felt to be remembered
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) Growing up in the early 1970s, the world felt both vibrant and strict. Our days were filled...
Importance of honesty
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Growing up in the early 1970s, spanking wasn’t as common as it had been in my parents’ day, but...
Shadows that would linger long after the event
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My mother, Eleanor, was a woman of formidable presence, her ambitions for me shining brighter than the polished silver...
The boundaries set were the walls that kept me safe
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0As a child of the 1970s, I was shaped by the rhythms and rules of a world that felt...
Each smack seemed to echo louder than the last, the sound bouncing off the tiled walls
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) My mother was a proper lady of British descent, and in our 1950s suburb, she was the...
Lessons seared into my memory
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0This is a memory and lesson that lasted. I had stolen some cookies that morning out of a jar...
Lectured sternly about the fear I had caused
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) This is a story from my earliest childhood, set in the gentle days of the 1930s. I...
I knew better than to test my mother’s patience again
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0As a child, I was often packed off to my maternal grandparent’s home in the country. Their house was...
The comfort I sought
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In the days when I was a little girl, our home was a place of order and...
We lay the foundation for lives of kindness, respect, and enduring strength
lfjoz, , Uncategorized, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In the gentle glow of a 1950s afternoon, as sunlight filtered through lace curtains and laughter of...
Lesson I would carry with me for many years to come
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) When I reflect upon my childhood, I recall many occasions when discipline was administered with a firm...
Fear of showing weakness
lfjoz, , Uncategorized, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) The house I grew up in was a world of gentle order and quiet routines, where the...
She left the wooden spoon on the table beside me
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Growing up in southern Germany during the 60s, I was part of a middle-class family where men worked long...
Boundaries, though painful, are sometimes necessary for us to grow
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) Growing up in a military family in the 1960s meant that discipline and order were woven into...
A deeper sense of having crossed a line that could not be uncrossed
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My memories of smacked bottoms reach back to the late 1960s, a time when the world seemed painted in...
Even now, all these years later, I can feel the sting, the shame, and the strange, aching love that lived in those moments of discipline.
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My mother was the very picture of discipline—her hair always pulled back in a severe bun, her shirtwaist dresses...
I would always try to pick the thinnest, most flexible switch, hoping it would hurt less
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0In the 1950s, my sister and I grew up in a world that felt both safe and unyielding—a world...
A lesson in boundaries, forgiveness, and the bittersweet loss of innocence
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0This happened back in the mid-60s. The world then seemed both vast and contained, my universe stretching only as...
Clear signs that I had truly crossed a line
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0As a child growing up in the 70s, discipline was a part of life as familiar as the salty...





































