I was living on Long Island, in a small, close-knit town where everyone seemed to know everyone else’s business....
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Hoping that tomorrow would be a little kinder
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0The early 1970s in Scotland had a certain chill to it, not just in the air but in the...
Lessons in humility
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0It had been around six months since I last wet the bed, so I was no longer in diapers...
When she finally finished, she announced our punishment
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0The memory begins on a sun-drenched Fourth of July, the kind of day that seems to stretch on forever...
Discipline was to be endured, not questioned
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0The early 1960s in our Scottish council estate were a world of grey skies, echoing stairwells, and the constant...
Fascination with the idea of strict discipline
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My next door neighbour Linda was a single woman with two teenage daughters, and she always seemed to carry...
Memories that’s never faded
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Growing up on a council estate in Scotland in the early 1970s was like living in a world built...
Strange senses of camaraderie
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0The part of spanking stories that appeals to me the most is the embarrassment. I’m not sure why, but...
Thats a birthday she won’t ever forget
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I remember the day I was invited to Debbie’s birthday party as if it were yesterday. Debbie was the...
Mother returned with the paddle
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0One day, when I was playing at my friend Amanda’s house, we heard agitated yelling from her next-door neighbour’s...
The Teacher
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) Growing up in the wide, wind-swept plains of Wyoming in the 1960s, my big brother and I...
Comforted in knowing I was loved, even when I made mistakes
lfjoz, , Uncategorized, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0The only place I ever went for sleepovers as a child was to my best friend Hannah’s house, where...
A bittersweet reminder of innocence, love, and the complicated ways we try to protect the ones we care for
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0The year was the late 1940s, a time when the world was still piecing itself back together after the...
The whipping Cory and I got was pretty over the top for a simple accident
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0When I was in the third grade, back in the sun-washed days of the 1960s, my world revolved around...
‘Come quietly to be smacked’
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My mother was definitely a believer in smacking naughty children. I was by no means the most unruly child...
Mother would make a show of removing her slipper, her eyes never leaving mine
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I was born in a bustling Spanish town, the kind where the scent of fresh bread and the sound...
This was about more than punishment. It was about boundaries, about love, about the impossible task of keeping one safe in a world that felt too big and too wild
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My mother was a sixth grade teacher from the time she graduated in the 1960s until she retired five...
Lesson that sink in deeper than any sting
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0The sun was high and golden, casting a warm, honeyed glow over the grassy fields as we unpacked our...
Every act of mischief carried its own weight
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0The summer of my childhood seemed endless, golden, and mischievous—a time when the days stretched out like warm taffy...
Draped over Petras Knee
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0During my university years in Heidelberg, Germany, I found myself living in a sprawling, sunlit house on the edge...
When words were not Enough
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Growing up with my brother Andrea in our little brick house in the northeast of Italy, the air always...
The love that lay beneath the leather
lfjoz, , Uncategorized, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In the gentle hills of Arkansas, during the 1950s, I spent my childhood in a house where...
Without further ceremony Mother raised her hand
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0During the early 1970s in London, I belonged to a steadfast group of six children who gathered regularly at...
“You must always do as you are told.”
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) The gentle haze of the 1960s seemed to wrap our little world in a golden cocoon, where...






















