Growing up in southern Germany during the 60s, I was part of a middle-class family where men worked long...
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Boundaries, though painful, are sometimes necessary for us to grow
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) Growing up in a military family in the 1960s meant that discipline and order were woven into...
A deeper sense of having crossed a line that could not be uncrossed
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My memories of smacked bottoms reach back to the late 1960s, a time when the world seemed painted in...
Even now, all these years later, I can feel the sting, the shame, and the strange, aching love that lived in those moments of discipline.
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My mother was the very picture of discipline—her hair always pulled back in a severe bun, her shirtwaist dresses...
I would always try to pick the thinnest, most flexible switch, hoping it would hurt less
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0In the 1950s, my sister and I grew up in a world that felt both safe and unyielding—a world...
A lesson in boundaries, forgiveness, and the bittersweet loss of innocence
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0This happened back in the mid-60s. The world then seemed both vast and contained, my universe stretching only as...
Clear signs that I had truly crossed a line
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0As a child growing up in the 70s, discipline was a part of life as familiar as the salty...
Consequences of my actions and the depth of my mother’s love
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Childhood in our small Irish town was a tapestry woven with laughter, innocence, and the gentle rhythms of family...
Mrs Murphy’s formidable Irish temper and her most memorable methods of discipline
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0In the heart of a small Irish town, where the hedgerows grew thick and the air was always tinged...
Lessons in discipline, love, and the complicated ties that bound us together
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(short pause) My childhood unfolded in the heart of a small Irish town during the 1960s, a place where...
By the irony of fate, I got my worst and most memorable chastisement
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Corporal punishment was by no means frequent in our family, as my twin sister and I were generally well-behaved...
boundaries and the boundless love that shaped the person I would become
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My earliest memories are painted in the soft, golden light of the early 1970s, in a small UK town...
Lessons I would carry with me long after the sting had faded
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I grew up in the late 1960s, a time when the world felt both bigger and smaller—when the rules...
She’d always ask if I knew why I was being punished
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Growing up in the heart of the Midwest, my sister and I lived in a modest, sunlit house nestled...
That day, the lesson lingered long after the pain had faded
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0There was one time in my childhood that stands out with a sharp, unforgettable clarity—the only time I ever...
The wooden bath brush became a symbol of discipline in our household
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0When I was in my formative years, I got many spankings. One day, I had been particularly bad, so...
I was loved enough to be corrected
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Looking back, my childhood in that small town feels like a patchwork quilt—stitched together with laughter, scraped knees, and...
Birching became a strange, secret part of my education, a lesson my sisters never quite understood
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My stepmother swept into our lives like a brisk autumn wind—thirty-five years old, with a past as mysterious as...
The complicated tenderness that shaped my childhood
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My childhood unfolded in a small, sleepy town where the days seemed to stretch endlessly, golden and slow, and...
Lessons I would not soon forget
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I am a Spanish immigrant, having arrived in the United States when I was in my formative years. In...
Mothers’ discipline became the foundation on which I built my sense of right and wrong
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My childhood unfolded in a sleepy little town where the days seemed to stretch on forever, golden and slow....
Being caned was not something I’d told her about
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Up until a certain age, my mother would spank me over her knee with a slipper; hard enough to...
Mother’s discipline was never angry or out of control
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In the early 1960s, our small northern English town was a world unto itself, nestled between rolling...
Complicated & unbreakable threads that tied me to my mother
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) Although I’m almost 60 now, the memory of a particular winter evening in the 1960s remains as...





















