(gap: 2s) As I trudged through the rest of my school day, the hard wooden chairs beneath me felt...
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The snipping sound was now sharp and final
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) The earliest memory I can summon is but a fleeting wisp, as delicate as the scent of...
Stay here, Do not move, I shall return
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0In our garden, we were strictly forbidden to play baseball, for the windows of the house were made of...
Mother’s ritual
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My parents reached adulthood in the 1960s and both were what one might call admirers of President Kennedy’s ideals....
Tricycle Tantrums
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My mother took me to visit the daughter of one of her friends. We were the same age. Sarah...
Rules at Mrs Nelson’s place
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0When I was a child, I developed a deep fascination for horses, as many young girls do. I would...
A Reflection on Discipline and Maternal Guidance
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Growing up in France during the 1970s, I was raised by my devoted mother, a woman of unwavering strength...
I am convinced that these experiences did us no harm
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In the days of my youth, when corporal punishment at home was a common and accepted practice,...
Lasting reminders of the lesson imparted
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0During my formative years, my mother held a steadfast belief in the value of corporal punishment as a means...
A measure of embarrassment
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I was raised in Canada within the embrace of a devout Irish Catholic household, blessed with two sisters—one my...
The importance of obedience, respect, and sisterly affection
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My sister Clare and I, as young girls, were often engaged in disagreements, much to the distress of our...
Each of us would receive six
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(short pause) My siblings and I grew up in a world of grey tenements and sharp North Sea winds,...
Monsters under the bed and things in closets
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0In the heart of a bustling Scottish estate, during the days when the world seemed painted in faded colours...
Stairs on a Saturday Morning
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) My brother and I, separated by two years yet bound by the invisible thread of childhood rivalry,...
One must heed his mother’s call
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I was playing at the park with some friends. Our mothers were seated on benches a few hundred yards...
I certainly learned my lesson that day
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) “I said no!” my mother’s voice rang out, sharp and unwavering, as she yanked my small, curious...
The importance of self-control and dignity
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) I had always believed that, upon entering our private school, the days of physical discipline would be...
Mother addressed us with solemnity
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In every well-ordered home, the afternoon tea is a cherished ritual, a moment of grace and hospitality....
True character is shaped not in moments of ease, but in the gentle correction of our faults
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In the gentle hush of a well-ordered home, my mother was engaged in a telephone conversation with...
Lessons that would not soon be forgotten
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) My childhood unfolded in the heart of Alabama, in a bustling home that echoed with laughter, the...
Values of respect, obedience, and personal responsibility
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) I recall with utmost clarity the occasion when my elder brother and I received a most salutary...
Petticoat Pettiness
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) My childhood unfolded in the late 1950s and early 1960s, a time when young ladies were expected...
Reflections on Discipline and Obedience
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0As I look back upon my formative years in the north-east of England during the 1950s, I am reminded...
Deliberate, as if Mother wanted me to remember
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Even growing up in the 80s, spanking was far more common than you might think. Most of the youngsters...
Mother’s discipline was swift and methodical
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) Several summers ago, when the world seemed brighter and the days stretched endlessly, my siblings and I...
Was she right to be so strict?
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Before I tell you more about my mother, I must explain how we came to live in the north...
Each strike was a jolt, a bolt of lightning that left me gasping
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0In the 1960s, teachers were the unyielding pillars of morality and order. Their presence alone commanded respect, and their...
I never skipped school after that, I’ll tell you
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0In the Scotland of the 1960s, the world in which I grew up was shaped by the ceaseless clang...
Through my tears, I heard her voice, tight and trembling with anger and disappointment
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I remember that Sunday morning so clearly, as if the air itself was tinged with anticipation. I was all...
I never touched another cigarette.
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I grew up in Ohio in the 1970s. my best friend and I had grown curious about being cool...
Counting the cost
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) The memory of that day is etched in my mind, as vivid as the faded wallpaper in...
If you won’t apologise, you’ll get it all the harder
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My mother, though we lived on a council estate, had grown up in a comfortable middle-class home, a world...
I don’t know what your mam will say about this
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) Growing up on the estate in the north of England, our world was a patchwork of red-brick...
Mother’s silence was terrifying
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) I grew up in the late 1960s, on a street where discipline wasn’t just a rule—it was...
Sometimes we have to become grown-ups to play out our heart’s desires
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) My mother was never one for pets. She saw them as messy, unpredictable, and a threat to...
Sometimes, discipline had to be felt to be remembered
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) Growing up in the early 1970s, the world felt both vibrant and strict. Our days were filled...
Importance of honesty
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Growing up in the early 1970s, spanking wasn’t as common as it had been in my parents’ day, but...
Shadows that would linger long after the event
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My mother, Eleanor, was a woman of formidable presence, her ambitions for me shining brighter than the polished silver...
The boundaries set were the walls that kept me safe
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0As a child of the 1970s, I was shaped by the rhythms and rules of a world that felt...
Each smack seemed to echo louder than the last, the sound bouncing off the tiled walls
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) My mother was a proper lady of British descent, and in our 1950s suburb, she was the...







































