This is a memory and lesson that lasted. I had stolen some cookies that morning out of a jar...
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Lectured sternly about the fear I had caused
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) This is a story from my earliest childhood, set in the gentle days of the 1930s. I...
I knew better than to test my mother’s patience again
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0As a child, I was often packed off to my maternal grandparent’s home in the country. Their house was...
The comfort I sought
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In the days when I was a little girl, our home was a place of order and...
We lay the foundation for lives of kindness, respect, and enduring strength
lfjoz, , Uncategorized, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In the gentle glow of a 1950s afternoon, as sunlight filtered through lace curtains and laughter of...
Lesson I would carry with me for many years to come
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) When I reflect upon my childhood, I recall many occasions when discipline was administered with a firm...
Fear of showing weakness
lfjoz, , Uncategorized, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) The house I grew up in was a world of gentle order and quiet routines, where the...
She left the wooden spoon on the table beside me
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Growing up in southern Germany during the 60s, I was part of a middle-class family where men worked long...
Boundaries, though painful, are sometimes necessary for us to grow
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) Growing up in a military family in the 1960s meant that discipline and order were woven into...
A deeper sense of having crossed a line that could not be uncrossed
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My memories of smacked bottoms reach back to the late 1960s, a time when the world seemed painted in...
Even now, all these years later, I can feel the sting, the shame, and the strange, aching love that lived in those moments of discipline.
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My mother was the very picture of discipline—her hair always pulled back in a severe bun, her shirtwaist dresses...
I would always try to pick the thinnest, most flexible switch, hoping it would hurt less
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0In the 1950s, my sister and I grew up in a world that felt both safe and unyielding—a world...
A lesson in boundaries, forgiveness, and the bittersweet loss of innocence
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0This happened back in the mid-60s. The world then seemed both vast and contained, my universe stretching only as...
Clear signs that I had truly crossed a line
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0As a child growing up in the 70s, discipline was a part of life as familiar as the salty...
Consequences of my actions and the depth of my mother’s love
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Childhood in our small Irish town was a tapestry woven with laughter, innocence, and the gentle rhythms of family...
Mrs Murphy’s formidable Irish temper and her most memorable methods of discipline
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0In the heart of a small Irish town, where the hedgerows grew thick and the air was always tinged...
Lessons in discipline, love, and the complicated ties that bound us together
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(short pause) My childhood unfolded in the heart of a small Irish town during the 1960s, a place where...
By the irony of fate, I got my worst and most memorable chastisement
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Corporal punishment was by no means frequent in our family, as my twin sister and I were generally well-behaved...
boundaries and the boundless love that shaped the person I would become
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My earliest memories are painted in the soft, golden light of the early 1970s, in a small UK town...
Lessons I would carry with me long after the sting had faded
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I grew up in the late 1960s, a time when the world felt both bigger and smaller—when the rules...
She’d always ask if I knew why I was being punished
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Growing up in the heart of the Midwest, my sister and I lived in a modest, sunlit house nestled...
That day, the lesson lingered long after the pain had faded
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0There was one time in my childhood that stands out with a sharp, unforgettable clarity—the only time I ever...
The wooden bath brush became a symbol of discipline in our household
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0When I was in my formative years, I got many spankings. One day, I had been particularly bad, so...
I was loved enough to be corrected
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Looking back, my childhood in that small town feels like a patchwork quilt—stitched together with laughter, scraped knees, and...
Birching became a strange, secret part of my education, a lesson my sisters never quite understood
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My stepmother swept into our lives like a brisk autumn wind—thirty-five years old, with a past as mysterious as...
The complicated tenderness that shaped my childhood
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My childhood unfolded in a small, sleepy town where the days seemed to stretch endlessly, golden and slow, and...
Lessons I would not soon forget
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I am a Spanish immigrant, having arrived in the United States when I was in my formative years. In...
Mothers’ discipline became the foundation on which I built my sense of right and wrong
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My childhood unfolded in a sleepy little town where the days seemed to stretch on forever, golden and slow....
Being caned was not something I’d told her about
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Up until a certain age, my mother would spank me over her knee with a slipper; hard enough to...
Mother’s discipline was never angry or out of control
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 2s) In the early 1960s, our small northern English town was a world unto itself, nestled between rolling...
Complicated & unbreakable threads that tied me to my mother
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) Although I’m almost 60 now, the memory of a particular winter evening in the 1960s remains as...
Trouble just seemed to follow us
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0(gap: 1s) My best friend Robert and I were inseparable, our days stitched together by the golden thread of...
Sharp words or a stern look from a parent was enough to bring any mischief to a halt
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Growing up in Surrey, England during the 1960s, my childhood unfolded in a world that felt both timeless and...
Mothers Hand & Three Sets of Diapers
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0When I was a little girl, my parents were always very fair and kind, but they believed in teaching...
An Instrument of Moral Instruction
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My mother, Agnes, was a schoolmistress in a small village primary school in Scotland in the 1950s, when the...
Guided by the Firm but Loving Hand of our Mother
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I spent my childhood in New Jersey, accompanied by my younger sister, Amanda. The year was 1962, and our...
This time for Real
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0In addition to parental punishments, the young are sometimes spanked by someone closer to their own age, most commonly...
Heredity Plays Strange Tricks Sometimes
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0My brother Peter and I, though twins, were as different as chalk and cheese, yet bound by an unbreakable...
Suddenly, the Fantasy of being Switched didn’t seem so Appealing
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0Ingrid, our Jamaican housekeeper and nanny, who was entrusted with the care and discipline of the younger children in...
No More Dares for Me
lfjoz, , Domestic Discipline, chastisement, corporal punishment, discipline, domestic discipline, punishment, spanking, 0I grew up in a peaceful, picturesque village nestled in the English countryside during the 1960s. Our home was...





































